Who you or I am is in a state of constant flux and change. 

As a spiritual life coach, I guide others through profound transformations and revelations. My background in Psychology and Counselling (B.A. Psychology; Minor Counselling, Simon Fraser University) has driven me to explore deep psychological, metaphysical, and philosophical knowledge through education, literature, and personal practices like meditation, breathwork, and fitness.

I help people recognize unconscious patterns often stemming from childhood wounds, transforming these beliefs through mindfulness, shadow work, Jungian psychology, cognitive reframing, and love to live authentic and fulfilling lives.

Why do I do this? 

At 13, I experienced the devastating loss of my Abuela Marisol to suicide, which led me to existential questions and a feeling of alienation from, my family, my friends, and myself.

The cracks in my being were both burdens and gifts, allowing light to enter. 

At 15, my aunt Nora was brutally murdered, deepening my anger and bitterness. 

Our family struggled with pain and trauma, coping as best we could.

I turned to drugs, alcohol, relationships, sports, fitness, and writing to cope.
 

At 19, my best friend Khalil suffered a psychotic break. I shifted my focus from Business to Psychology, driven by a need to save him. Two years later, Khalil passed away, leaving me in unbearable grief. 

But in that grief, I found freedom, sharing music and poetry with the world, though still carrying pain.

Khalil saved me.

For years, I lived on the edge, balancing rigorous discipline with weekend binges to numb my pain. 

This self-sabotage stemmed from a deep unconscious wound and a lack of self-love. I shamed myself to grow, but that only worked until it didn’t.

A death once more saved my life. 

In the summer of 2022, my cousin Andres, like an older brother to me, took his life. This plunged me deeper into substance abuse until I almost chose to end my own life. 

That was the breaking point where I promised to learn to love myself, recognize my shame, and face the grief I’d ignored.

I embraced radical love, transparency, and accountability. 

What did this actually mean, day to day?

It meant I stopped running from uncomfortable emotions, I got really curious instead.

I didn’t just write raps now, I wrote honest self inquiries.

I analyzed my patterns of behaviour, reflecting on the relationships I’d chosen, the connection between my addiction and trauma, & the reactive way of living that had ruled over my mind for too long.

I witnessed the identity I’d created, the mask to create a false sense of psychological safety, that was leading me away from my heart, from being fucking real about who and what I was.

I owned the fears, instead of pretended I didn’t have them.

I stopped lying to my parents, my friends, and of course, my self.

With the support of practices & tools like meditation, shadow work, value identification, accountability assessments, life narrative analyses, breath work, artistic transmutation (alchemize pain into art), movement, inner child healing, gratitude, and radical truth telling–

I became free.

For over two years, I’ve held myself in love, patience, grace, and understanding. I’ve built a successful business, hosted events, reclaimed my health, booked retreats, and formed healthy heart-centered relationships. 

I’ve let go of shame, guilt, and addictions.

Now, I am in love with the wonder and awe of mundanity. 

I choose my suffering through disciplined actions. 

I practice what I preach, honouring the integrity of my values.

My daily habits are my choices, and I choose to live life in accordance of my personal values, and it has given me my dream life. 

I often tell my close friends ‘I feel like the luckiest man on Earth.’

I do what I do because I know that the light within me is the same light within you.

I want to help you find the power in your pain.

I want to share my expertise and reflect your inner wisdom to help you develop greater awareness, accountability, discipline & ultimately freedom.

 

Together, we’ll remember,

No ones going to save you,

AND you don’t have to go alone.

Who you or I am is in a state of constant flux and change.